No More Models on Catwalks

The catwalk is a narrow platform that is elevated and is used by models to show clothing and other accessories during the course of a fashion show.[1]



Let’s have a look at this phenomenon. What is it based on? Pictures. The models are putting on ‘perfect’ make-ups, being ‘perfectly’ dressed, walking ‘elegantly’ – doing what? Present a picture. We see pictures everywhere in this world and we start to program ourselves with pictures as we grow up in this world and eventually we have come to define ourselves according to pictures. We are not actually living in the physical reality. We are living in our mental reality – pictures (such as models on catwalks) triggering energetic experiences such as desire which we accept and allow to direct ourselves without even questioning where they come from in the first place. Through those pictures we have built an idea of what is beautiful and what is fashionable. But none of that is actually real but are merely picture-related ideas that exist within our mind. Yet we believe them to be real and make decisions according to it, which just shows how easily human beings can be manipulated and controlled by illusions. Are we actually making a self-directive decision to buy a specific product merely because they are demonstrated by the models to be fashionable or are we being directed by the ideas/beliefs within our mind that we are programmed with through pictures to make that decision? Then who is making that decision? And who is actually benefiting from that decision? You or the company selling the product? What are you paying for? Usually impractical and uncomfortable clothes/shoes/accessories etc to reproduce that picture presentation demonstrated by the models - a picture/idea which is not yours in the first place.



Look at it. It is really just a picture. The clothes/shoes/accessories on those fashion shows are not designed with practicality and comfortableness as priorities but picture presentation overrides everything else. Those high heel shoes which are difficult for the models to manage their steps on the catwalk and tend to fall off the ground are but one explicit example of that principle. Yet it is the comfortableness and practicality that actually supports our human physical body.



There is nothing ‘wrong’ with clothing/shoes/accessories per se. It is the disregard of practical functioning of them to support our physical body and transforming them into merely pictures supporting delusional ideas which lead to decisions that promote the current consumerism economic system furthering the destruction of the physical reality that is the problem.



Within the equal money system (EMS) such things as models on catwalk as it currently exist which are merely picture presentations to serve the interest of the current abusive destructive economic system will be no more. The point of clothing /shoes/accessories etc and fashion thereof can be transformed into physical support and self-expression where we can investigate what we each one can do creatively about them in expressing ourselves. So the concept of fashion will definitely change in the EMS. It does not mean that everybody has to wear the same clothes[2]; instead it is opening up the door of each one’s creative self-expression rather than becoming the duplicated picture presentation we are sold through the fashion industry at this moment in the world.



[1] catwalk: http://www.articleworld.org/index.php/Catwalk


[2] Will everyone wear the same clothes in an Equal Money
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tePgFCbxU68
http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=41&t=1700

The End of Animal Extinction Caused by Greed/Profit/Harming the Environment

Our current economic system is based on greed and profit. Obviously within such a system life is not the first priority as everything is equated in terms of how much profit can be gained to feed man’s greed. The result is this world as currently is – where we are busy destroying everything on earth that which is real which is the physical reality as nature, ocean and the animal kingdom, within which we are also creating our own demise. The problem of animal extinction due to human activities harming the environment through our acceptance and allowance of the current economic system is but a precise reflection of what we are busy doing to ourselves.


There may be different causes for species extinction. However habitat destruction due to human activities has been identified currently as the main cause of species extinction worldwide. “Clearing habitats for agriculture is the principal cause of habitat destruction. Other important causes of habitat destruction include mining, logging, trawling and urban sprawl.” Actually all human activities can be traced back to money and how money functions in our current economic system which is through each and every single human being’s acceptance, allowance and participation and thus we are all equally responsible for the current status of this world – in this specific example the destruction of habitat and species extinction. Money has a say on everything we do. If we investigate that within self-honesty, we will see that everywhere – we can see how money determines our life on an individual scale and how this whole world functions on the bigger scale.



It is self-evident and beyond discussion that nature, the animal kingdom and the entire earth are being abused by human – used by human for profit and greed which only feeds human ego as the illusionary idea that somehow human species is more than other species on earth. The fucked-upness of this world doubtlessly reveals the true nature of man. Earth is our home. Animals are our equals. What advanced species would be stupid enough to destroy one’s own home and treat its equals as slaves?



The equal money system (EMS) is the solution for mankind so that we can actually live as custodians of earth in harmony with nature and the animal kingdom and everything that is here. The EMS is based on the principle of what is best for all – best for all the living beings. Profit and greed will be no more the driving force as they currently are in the current economic system. And thus human, animal, plant and the natural environment are all equally considered so that all living beings on earth can enjoy our living here on earth. Particularly, the principal cause of species extinction which is habitat destruction due to agriculture will be solved in the EMS due to the change in how food will be manufactured and produced in EMS [2] as only very little land will be required to mass-produce food under controlled environments using the technology that already exist in this world. A lot of stuff that are involved with biofuel such as sugar and corn etc that are produced in the current system will no more be needed due to the end of competition and thus many species’ habitats will be restored as vast regions of earth return to its natural condition. “Most of the farmland in the world will become the home of animals again, and most of the fences will be removed so that animals can roam the world again…” [2] Fascinating, EMS will bring heaven on earth – a heaven for all living beings!


Reference:


[1] Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Habitat_destruction#cite_note-1


[2] How would food be manufactured and produced?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmAx60pUfKg
http://forum.desteni.org/viewtopic.php?f=41&t=1526&p=7957&hilit=How+will+food+be+manufactured+and+produced%3F#p7957

No More Homeless with Equal Money

No doubt the problem of homelessness is prominent in our current system. According to researches done on the homeless problem in America – “EVEN IN THE FACE OF 1990s ECONOMIC PROSPERITY, homeless statistics show the number of homeless has remained stubbornly high. Between five and six hundred thousand people are considered ‘homeless’ at any given time - without a ‘permanent, safe, decent, affordable place to live’. (Granruth and Smith*).”[1]




The causes of homelessness such as poverty, economic depression, high housing cost and low salary [1] are all considered within the accepted framework of the current economic system without challenging the current system itself and sourcing the actual real origin point of the problem. Thus these factors are actually merely outflows of underlying fundamental problem (‘Fund Mental’ lol that says it all). The problem is deeply rooted within our accepted Mentality of life and money and the current economic system that is an external representation and reflection of/as who we have accepted and allowed ourselves to be within, where within we fund/invest in our mind system/mental reality while destroying our physical body – equal and one without manifested as the destruction of the physical reality as nature/animal kingdom/ocean through and as funding/investing in our current economic system.


Isn’t it insane that we have come to accept and allow that we have accepted survival as the way of life? Isn’t it insane that we have come to accept and allow money to determine whether we live or die? If you have no money - you have no food, you have no drinking water, you have no clothes to wear, you have no house to live in and thus you have no right to live in this world. We have come to accept and allow that we require to buy the right to live and thus life has become a constant struggle and survival! And we call this living? What a fucking joke!



Within in an Equal Money System(EMS) the whole paradigm changes. Life rather than abuse of life, is honored. Equality and what is Best for All is the foundational principle. Each one born into this reality is ensured a dignified life. The basic needs of everyone such as food, drinking water, clothes, housing, health care and education etc will be taken care of on the basis that we are living beings. And thus our lives will not be based on survival but actual living. Poverty, economic depression and high housing cost etc that are equated as causes of homelessness in the framework of our current economic system will also exist no more in EMS as they are outflow derivatives of our current economic system that is based on profit and greed and driven by survival. (To learn more how EMS works please read reference [2]). Thus EMS solves the problem of homelessness from the root rather than just bandaging it.



No more homeless with equal money!


Reference:



[1] PREVENTING HOMELESSNESS IN AMERICA:

http://www.solutionsforamerica.org/thrivingneigh/homelessness.html

[2] Equal money System:

http://wiki.destonians.com/Equal_Money_System

Equal Money System FAQ: Who decides the prices of products and services?

Who decides the prices of products and services.


There is an interim before equal money system called BIG(basic income grant). In the BIG age, products and services still exist and are related to the basic income. In the equal money system prices of products or services will no longer be relevant because life will be the only value. Prices indicate that one will have to buy the right to life. In the equal money system each one is born with the right to life and taken care of automatically and thus one does not need to strive to get money to buy the right to life as in the current system where if you do not have money you will die. Thus we will be no longer be driven by survival but start to actually live, explore and enjoy ourselves. In the equal money system the basic principle is what is best for all. Everything will be in the service of life. Thus all the resources provided by the earth and nature will belong to everyone and will be applied effectively to make sure that everyone could have the best life possible. You will also have access to new things that people come up with, which they do a labour in the form of love to honour other human beings or themselves. These products will be presented on a global scale. If there are enough people willing to work with it or enjoy it, it will be manufactured and made available to all those who want it equally. In this way you will participate in decision making on whether you want the product or not. The basic labour in the equal money system will be done through a conscription system where young people will work in a society management system. They will learn how to produce food and related products and services in a commune-style where they can have fun and parties, interacting with their peers, becoming a fully developed human beings and developing a healthy social structure.



Reference:

[1] Who decides the prices of products and services
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTGN9HAaG44

[2] How would food be manufactured and produced? - Equal Money FAQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmAx60pUfKg

Equal Money System FAQ: Will Aliens bring us advanced technology once we exist as one as equal?

Will Aliens bring us advanced technology once we exist as one as equal?



For us to exist as one and equal, we require to implement and live in an equal money system (EMS). The EMS is based on the principle of what is best for all. Within the principle of what is best for all is the understanding that what is best for all is what is best for self thus it is the consideration of all equal and one as self. Living in the EMS based on the principle of what is best for all is thus the practical realization of us existing as one as equal.



At the stage of implementing the EMS, such points as aliens and their advanced technology are not relevant. The problem on earth is a human problem. We have to take self-responsibility to sort out the shit we created on earth. If aliens with advanced technology do exist they would also want to entrust the advanced technology to a trustworthy species which can take self-responsibility, wouldn’t they? I mean, the point of ‘once we exist as one as equal’ is also a requirement that we as a human species be trustworthy, which can only be so through taking full self-responsibility, being fully accountable for our own creation.



The EMS ensures that we as a human species can be trusted as we live as one as equal and be responsible for ourselves and all as ourselves. In the EMS everything is based on the principle of what is best for all. Thus before implementation of an technology it will be first investigated to make sure that it indeed is what is best for all which entails that the technology is not abused in any way whatsoever. Obviously that is not the case in the current system where there are technologies used without proper consideration of consequences or advanced technologies that can benefit all being suppressed due to profit and greed. In the equal money system, those current advanced technologies that are best for all can already be implemented. And the development of science and technology in EMS will no longer be controlled by profit but determined by what is best for all. Thus our scientific and technological endeavor could go even much faster than it does right now, allowing advanced technology to be developed and implemented for the best benefit of all.



Only when we as a human species becomes trust-worthy as in the EMS do the points of alien and their advanced technology become relevant. Then we can investigate these more advanced points of whether aliens actually exist or whether they will bring us advanced technology. I mean, it is really up to the aliens if they do exist. But human species living in the EMS is definitely a species that is worth having contact with and being trustworthy of being revealed to those advanced technology as they know the technology will be used for what is best for all.

Equal Money System FAQ: What will happen to the elite blood lines?

What will happen to the elite blood lines?




The elite is a result of the current system that we are all equally responsible for – a system of profit and greed, a system of evolution – ever losing, within which we become less and less and less within abdicating ourselves for survival. The elite has as much power as we give them. We are all equally responsible for the current status of the world as it exists through our acceptance and allowance of who we are within our participation in the current system. Thus we created this world as the image and likeness as what we accepted and allowed ourselves to be as separation, abuse and inequality.



Within the equal money system, the foundational principle is what is best for all. Thus we will establish a system that values life and remove survival from the equation of each one’s life. We honour each other as who honour ourselves and we actually practically live the principle of ‘love thy neighbour as thyself’. No one will have power and control over another and thus elitism will end in the equal money system.



As each one will face what we accepted and allowed within the system of inequality, so will the elite. The accepted self-definition of the elite as being apparently more than other human beings and the practice of power and control over others thereof through whatever means is actually a dishonour of who they really are as life and thus an acceptance of self-abuse and self-limitation, which requires assistance and correction. They will be re-educated with the value of life and realize that what is best for all is also what is best for themselves. The resources that are provided by the earth and nature and the products that are produced by human thus will be available to all equally to benefit all equally.



Since we all accepted and allowed and participated in the current system and are thus are all equally responsible for what is here in this world, it is not valid to judge and blame the elite for why the world is what it is and use that as justification to seek revenge. Revenge only brings more revenge. The only way to stop the cycle of harming each other is forgiveness. Forgive each other as ourselves and make sure we do not create such harm and abuse ever again.


Reference: What will happen to the Elite? -- Equal Money FAQ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxn_o0GmQQs

Equal Money System FAQ: How will addictions be handled?

How will addictions be handled?




The extensiveness of addiction problems in the current system is due to its nature of not supporting life. The current economic system is based on survival. Life in the current system for many has become a constant struggle. People who have addictions such as alcohol or drugs mainly use them to escape reality and suppress themselves because they are not satisfied with life. The addictions create a hiding place where one does not face and deal with the true reality but try to forget everything or seek high experiences in illusionary realities in the mind, within which one actually becomes more defeated and abdicate self-responsibility and just accept self as a slave. Within the EMS, all people’s basic physical needs are met through providing an equal amount of money that is sufficient for the person to live a dignified life from birth to death. Thus there won’t be any survival stress that haunts anyone and we can actually start to give us the opportunity to explore what it means to live for the first time. People no longer have the motive to suppress themselves through using alcohol or drugs in order to escape reality and go into illusionary realities, because now they can find happiness and enjoy themselves in real life. Thus addiction problems will drop exponentially in the EMS. The EMS is a fundamental solution to get rid of the root of addiction problems.



In the current unequal abusive economic system, abuses related to addictions are actually promoted because of profit and greed instead of being stopped/intervened/prevented based on the principle of what is best for all. Have you ever wondered why alcohol is legal while drugs are illegal? Is it really because alcohol is less harmful and destructive than drugs? A scientific research [1][2] done by British researchers in 2010 shows ‘Presenting a new scale of drug harm that rates the damage to users themselves and to wider society, the scientists rated alcohol the most harmful overall and almost three times as harmful as cocaine or tobacco.’ ‘Professor David Nutt, chairman of the ISCD, whose work was published in the Lancet medical journal, said the findings showed that ‘aggressively targeting alcohol harms is a valid and necessary public health strategy.’ He said they also showed that current drug classification systems had little relation to the evidence of harm.’ If alcohol being legal is not based on the evidence of harm, what is it based on then? It all boils down to money! One major reason why alcohol is legal while drugs are illegal is because alcohol brings in far more money in tax to the government. When money comes into play everything else gives way. The consequences however are the prevalence of abuses due to alcohol consumption. In the family situation a major cause of child abuse, sexual abuse and domestic violence is due to the effect alcohol has on people using it to suppress themselves and become possessed by their anger and frustration and exert them onto other family members which may cause traumatic experiences or even physical harms on other family members – usually children and women. “The World Health Organization estimates that risks linked to alcohol cause 2.5 million deaths a year from heart and liver disease, road accidents, suicides and cancer -- accounting for 3.8 percent of all deaths. It is the third leading risk factor for premature death and disabilities worldwide.[1]” Within the EMS profit and greed are removed and what is best for all is the basic law. Such atrocities and abuses cannot be tolerated. Once the facts and effects of alcohol are researched thoroughly and are known to all we will all agree on the decision that alcohol should be outlawed. This is an act of intervention/prevention that is best for all rather than deliberate promotion of abuse based on profit as is in the current economic system.



In the EMS people who have developed addiction problems will be assisted immediately and effectively. Eventually technology will allow one’s DNA to be read and according to the output of a person’s DNA the person’s physical-chemical-psychological condition can be detected. Thus if there is an addiction problem it will be reflected on the output of the reading signal of DNA. The person can thus receive immediate assistance and support from necessary professionals at early stages of developing such a problem. There will be also a lot of changes with regards to psychology and psychiatry[11]. In the current system psychology and psychiatry are driven by the motive of making money from the patients and thus the patients’ problems are deliberately not cured actually so that they can continue to be exploited. In the EMS such things cannot be tolerated. Research being done will be focused on discovering the actual reasons for human being’s dysfunctional problems and find real effective practical solutions.







Reference:

[1]: http://www.reuters.com/article/2010/11/01/us-drugs-alcohol-idUSTRE6A000O20101101

[2]:http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/39938704/ns/health-addictions/t/alcohol-more-dangerous-heroin-cocaine-study-finds/

[3]: http://www.urban75.com/Drugs/drugten.html

[4]: http://vodpod.com/watch/5672242-equal-money-system-and-drug-addiction

[5]: http://equalmoney.org/2011/04/war-on-drugs-creates-more-crime-%e2%80%93-equal-money-dip-is-solution/

[6]: http://equalmoney.org/2011/06/why-alcohol-makes-you-a-pre-historic-zombie-moron/

[7]: http://equalmoney.org/2011/03/all-co-hole-ism-till-5-am-from-today/

[8]: http://cathy4worldequality.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/addiction-is-mind-control-you-want-to-stop-the-solution-is-here/

[9]: http://shsbarbi.blogspot.com/2011/04/equal-money-system-solution.html

[10]: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFPv3Xuzpvo

[11]: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6Fo1I6mc2A

[12]: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fysPM0mP84

Equal Money System FAQ: Cars - who will make them and who will get one

Cars - who will make them and who will get one




Cars are practical tools in the transportation system for us to move around to different locations physically in the world. So cars will still be manufactured and distributed in the Equal Money System. This can be part of the transportation system within the global logistical system for the support and distribution to all equally in EMS. How exactly that is going to work we will all have to decide within the principle of what is best for all.



Practically there exists the necessity of both public transportation such as trains, buses and private transportation such as personal cars.



In the current consumerism economic system, people are promoted to buy and use personal cars as much as possible because of the profit linked to the car industry, which is currently also directly connected to the massive profit-involved oil industry through the dependency of oil consumption by cars. Because of the system is driven by profit and greed rather than consideration of practical living, cars as well as other products in the current system are not made to last long. They have to break so that people can buy more. More products are sold, more profits are gained. Cars with lower quality have to be deliberately manufactured to serve the need of those with lower income. It does not make sense to produce a product with a lower quality when we have the ability to produce it in higher quality, does it? Why not produce all of the products in the highest possible quality? Yet that is what is promoted in our current economic system - a system without common sense. In the EMS this will change. The EMS is based on the principle of what is best for all – a principle of practical common sense. Profit and greed will no longer be the driving force but consideration of life, practical functionality and expression. All cars will be manufactured in the highest possible quality. So that people driving in the car can be well protected rather than injured or die in case of an accident because the car is deliberately made of a lower quality due to profit factor.



From a common sense consideration, it is also still necessary to have a person get a license to ensure their qualification before they drive a vehicle so that they actually know how to drive and what to do in different situations when driving a vehicle so that it does not cause potential danger to anyone. That is best for everyone’s safety.



The various brands of cars will not exist in the EMS. If you look at all the brands in the current system, what is the actual practical functionality of them? Is there actually any? Do they hold value merely because people believe in them through advertisement to generate ideas/beliefs/desires within people’s minds so that more products can be sold and more profits can be gained?



The air pollution problem of vehicle exhaust can also be solved more easily when the profit and cost factors do not stand in the way in the EMS. Our current technology has already been able to make cars that do not depend on oil and pollute the air, but use water, electricity, hydrogen, or compressed air etc and thus more friendly to the environment. The major resisting factor to the implementation of these solutions is still profit. In the current system, the car industry and the oil industry are dependent on each other. If cars no longer use oil, the oil companies will lose profit. In the EMS, with the removal of the profit factor, we will all be able to make informed decisions on what fuel we use for cars within the principle of what is best for all. That of course includes the consideration of our influence on the environment we live in – on the air that we breathe because everything we produce and place into our environment will have an influence back onto ourselves. We have to consider the consequences of what we do onto our environment and thus onto ourselves.



With regards to who will get a car in the EMS that will depend on whether there is such a need for a car. Each one having a car is not necessarily practical. If there are too many cars in this world, there may not be enough space among cars for the traffic to move effectively or enough places to park cars. Imagine the extreme situation where the surface of the whole planet is covered with cars then not even one car can move. Of course the effects of too many cars do not have to get to such an extreme to be revealed. You only need to consider the hours wasted in traffic jams each day you go to work or when you spent half an hour finding a parking lot. Cars are supposed to make life easier not the opposite. Implementing more effective public transportation is a suggested practical solution. In the current economic system, the public transportation is not designed and functioning at its fullest potential. One reason is the profit-driven factor to promote the car industry so the public transportation is suppressed. If we establish well developed effective public transportation such as bus, train, and subway etc, people will start to realize the merit of public transportation and may start to like taking them because it is practical. Then we can effectively reduce the unnecessary amount of cars and help solving the corresponding traffic issues. It is also possible that we can find practical solutions to solve the current traffic problems even without reducing the amount of cars so that the transportation system is more private-transportation based. So there may still exist the two aspects of public transportation and private transportation in the transportation system in EMS. We will just have to see and decide how exactly to make these two aspects work together as effectively as possible.



Read and watch related discussions:



Equal Money system - Transportation solution

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCLaOx0Ws5k



Transport & Equal Money

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NE3pMwkzYYo



Cars in an Equal Money System - Equal Money FAQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sFPv3Xuzpvo



Practical solution for Transportaion that is Best for ALL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nt0xRDPuOZs

Equal Money System FAQ: Do I still have to clean other people’s toilets in an EMS?

Let’s have a look at what could possibly be implied within the question with regards to the point of cleaning toilets being mentioned specifically.




In the current world, cleaning toilet is usually seen as a dirty/shitty job and people doing such a job are usually not well respected. It seems to be a custom that our society value mental work much more than physical work. We have, for instance, theoretical physicists developing theories about the universe with eleven dimensions, which is mostly mental work and such scientists have a relatively high status in society. We also have for example plumbers doing the ordinary maintenance work to help fix a leaking pipe if there is such a problem and they have a relatively low social status. Of course, ‘relatively’ is measured according to the current accepted value system of this world.



Our current value system is born from and in turn supports our economic system, which has a lack of recognition of and respect for actual physical living. If you have a look at what actually supports us to exist and function in the physical world – it is the food we eat, the clothes we wear, the house/shelter we live in, the cars/buses we use to move around and the maintenance system that keeps them functioning properly and also some other aspects. However we have taken for granted these physical aspects that allow us to exist and function in this physical reality. How often do we even consider where the food comes from, who made the clothes we wear? What provides the foundation for us to do the so perceived more valuable creative expressive mental work? Why are we so obsessed with the mental delusional alternate realities keeping the current destructive economic system continuing through our participation while destroying this one physical reality that we all exist in together? In the context of the current economic system and the corresponding promoted value system, we do not care and respect that which actually matters which is matter – the physical and the practical living in the physical. That is the problem. And that will change in the Equal Money System.



In the Equal Money System Life is value. That which supports life is valued. Each human being born into this world will receive the same amount of money that is necessary to live a dignified life. Thus survival is out of the equation of living. In terms of cleaning other people’s toilets, in the current system people do it most likely due to lack of money to survive – thus from that perspective it will no longer exist in the EMS because the person’s basic ‘survival needs’ will have been taken care of. We no longer have slaves working for us just because they need money to survive! In the EMS, they can explore and enjoy life as everyone else equally. Each one will take equal responsibility in doing the work necessary for a functioning life. Cleaning toilet regularly is part of such necessary work. It is practical that each one clean one’s own toilet. Or if people who live or work together are sharing a restroom, they can work out a schedule for example to take turns in cleaning toilets on a weekly basis so that each one takes equal responsibility. But still it is not about cleaning other people’s toilets – it is about taking equal responsibility in the necessary work and each one is actually doing it for themselves.



There are also other kind of areas that are critical to the quality of each one’s life on earth, such as agriculture/food production and distribution, the manufacturing of clothing, energy production such as energy, sewage system building and maintenance etc. To ensure these basic supports are provided to everyone, it will be done through a system of conscription – where everyone who finishes school will do 4 years of mandatory labor in any one of those areas required to support the basic support system of the world. In the current system, one can abdicate responsibility of doing such necessary work through using money to buy ‘freedom’ and let those who need money to survive to do all such work. Our current value system of disrespect for physical work is actually glorification of slavery. The four-year labor in areas of the basic support system can be a cool experience to educate ourselves about what it takes to make our life in the physical world function and it could be fun. I myself would definitely enjoy having such an experience of exploring and discovering myself and the world within which I have taken so much for granted and almost knew nothing about.



Within the EMS through reeducating ourselves with how to live practically in the physical and take equal responsibility in the necessary work for our life to function, we may have a different view on cleaning toilet and not see it as such a dirty/shitty job which is but shaped and limited by the current value system that supports slavery instead of life as equality.

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Read and watch related topics:

Who will do the shitty jobs: http://equalmoney.org/2011/10/who-will-do-the-shitty-jobs/

Who will do the shitty jobs: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4CAwvGi0T0


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The following self-forgiveness is extracted from my ITD course assignment #10. 



1. THE RELATIONSHIP-SYSTEM




Ideal Partner



Self-Forgiveness on ideas, perceptions, beliefs, definitions in relation to ‘Ideal Partner’:



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to charge the word ideal partner with a positive value.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge the word ideal partner as positive/good.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word ideal partner through judging the word ideal partner as good/positive.





Appearance: Beautiful, looking like my mother and sister



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word appearance to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word appearance within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word appearance and the word ideal partner through defining the word appearance within the word partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word beautiful to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word beautiful within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word beautiful and the word ideal partner through defining the word beautiful within the word partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the words mother/sister to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the words mother/sister within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the words mother/sister and the word ideal partner through defining the words mother/sister within the word partner in separation of myself.





Figure: sexy



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word figure to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word figure within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word figure and the word ideal partner through defining the word figure within the word partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word sexy to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word sexy within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word sexy and the word ideal partner through defining the word sexy within the word partner in separation of myself.





Intellectuality: smart but not smarter than me



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word intellectuality to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word intellectuality within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word intellectuality and the word ideal partner through defining the word intellectuality within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the words smart but not smarter than me to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word smart but not smarter than me within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word smart and from the word ideal partner through defining smart but not smarter than me within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.





Character:tender, goodness,considerate, independent



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word character to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word character within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word character and from the word ideal partner through defining the word character within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word tender to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word tender within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word tender and from the word ideal partner through defining the word tender within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word goodness to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word goodness within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word goodness and from the word ideal partner through defining the word goodness within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word considerate to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word considerate within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word considerate and from the word ideal partner through defining the word considerate within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word independent to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word independent within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word independent and the word ideal partner through defining the word independent within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.





Work: having a job and earning money



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word work to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word work within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word work and form the word ideal partner through defining the word work within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the words having a job and earning money to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define having a job and earning money to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from having a job and earning money and from the word ideal partner through defining having a job and earning money within ideal partner in separation of myself.





Loyal/sticking to female’s moral code



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word loyal to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word loyal within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word loyal and from the word ideal partner through defining the word loyal within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect sticking to female’s moral code to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define sticking to female’s moral code within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from sticking to female’s moral code and from the word ideal partner through defining the words sticking to female’s moral code within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.





Popularity: popular yet low-key

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word popularity to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word popularity within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word popularity and from the word ideal partner through defining the word popularity within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect popular to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word popular to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word popular and from the word ideal partner through defining the word popular within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word low-key to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word low-key within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word low-key and from the word ideal partner through defining the word low-key within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.





Finance: no serious debt



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word finance to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word finance within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word finance and from the word ideal partner through defining the word finance within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word debt to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word debt in polarity to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word debt and from the word popularity through defining the word debt in polarity to the word ideal partner in separation of myself.





Household duties



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word household duties to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word household duties within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word household duties and from the word ideal partner through defining the word household duties within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.





Education: at least undergraduate



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word education to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word education within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word education and from the word ideal partner through defining the word education within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word undergraduate to the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the word undergraduate within the word ideal partner.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word undergraduate and from the word ideal partner through defining the word undergraduate within the word ideal partner in separation of myself.







Re-define ‘ideal partner’:

- Sounding of the words:

The word ideal sounds like the word idea and the word partner contains the word parent.

The ideal partner of the mind is an idea of perfection that is created based on mainly the parents – together with all other factors.



- Dictionary Definition:

Ideal: satisfying one's idea of what is perfect

Partner: either of two people who are married to one another or having a sexual relationship with one another



- New Definition:



The following definition is constructed from various points mentioned in the document relationships, sex and agreements – part 2.



ideal partner is an individual with whom we together walk this process of birthing self as Life from the Physical and establishing Heaven on Earth within the principle of Equality and Oneness as What is Best for All - where we establish an equal and one relationship/agreement with self in getting to know self through self-honesty, self-forgiveness and practical corrective application, and assist and support each other to do so while walking together within self-completion, self-love and self-acceptance within which we explore, discover, share, express and experience self-honesty, self-living, self-expression as who we are here as an in fact practical, physical, tangible, reality-experience of walking with each other, equal and one.







Ideal Relationship

Self-Forgiveness on ideas, perceptions, beliefs, definitions in relation to ‘Ideal Relationship’ as mapped out in the web above:



I am not like my father and my partner is like my mother

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect me not being like my father and my partner being like my mother to the word ideal relationship.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define me not being like my father and my partner being like my mother within the word ideal relationship.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word ideal relationship through defining me not being like my father and my partner being like my mother to the word ideal relationship – in separation of myself.



Different from my parents’ relationship

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect my parents’ relationship to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define my parents’ relationship in polarity to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from my parents’ relationship and ideal relationship through defining the word my parents’ relationship in polarity to ideal relationship – in separation of myself.





Intimacy



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the word intimacy to the ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define intimacy within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word intimacy and ideal relationship through defining intimacy within ideal relationship – in separation of myself.





Security



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect security to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define security within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from security and from ideal relationship through defining security within ideal relationship – in separation of myself.



Care



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect care to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define care within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from care and from ideal relationship through defining care within ideal relationship in separation of myself.





Attention



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect attention to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define attention within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from attention and from ideal relationship through defining attention within ideal relationship – in separation of myself.





Love each other



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect loving each other to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define loving each other within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from love and from ideal relationship through defining loving each other within ideal relationship in separation of myself.





Equality between partners:



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect equality between partners to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define equality between partners within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from equality between partners and from ideal relationship through defining equality between partners within ideal relationship in separation of myself.





Enough money



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect enough money to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define enough money within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from enough money and from ideal relationship through defining enough money within ideal relationship – in separation of myself.





Great sex life



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect great sex life to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define great sex life within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from great sex life and from ideal relationship through defining great sex life within ideal relationship in separation of myself.





Peace = no constant quarrel/fighting/domestic violence



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect peace to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define peace within ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from peace and from ideal relationship through defining peace within ideal relationship in separation of myself.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect constant quarrel/fighting/domestic violence to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define constant quarrel/fighting/domestic violence in polarity to ideal relationship.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from constant quarrel/fighting/domestic violence through defining constant quarrel/fighting/domestic violence in polarity to ideal relationship – in separation of myself.









Re-define ‘ideal relationship’:

- Sounding of the words:

The word ideal sounds like the word idea.

As for relationship I do not know yet. From the structure of the word, it is just relation+ship.

- Dictionary Definition:

Ideal: satisfying one's idea of whatis perfect; most suitable

Relationship: a situation in which two people spend time together or live together, and have romantic or sexual feelings for each other

- New Definition:

ideal relationship is an agreement within which two individuals as partners in life walk this process of birthing self as Life from the Physical and establishing Heaven on Earth within the principle of Equality and Oneness as What is Best for All – where we establish an equal and one relationship/agreement with self in getting to know self through self-honesty, self-forgiveness and practical corrective application, and assist and support each other to do so while walking together within self-completion, self-love and self-acceptance within which we explore, discover, share, express and experience self-honesty, self-living, self-expression as who we are here as an in fact practical, physical, tangible, reality-experience of walking with each other, equal and one.







Ideal Sex



Self-Forgiveness on ideas, perceptions, beliefs, definitions in relation to ‘Ideal Sex’ as mapped out in the web above:

Multiple beautiful sexy female partners：

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect multiple beautiful sexy female partners to ideal sex.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define multiple beautiful sexy female partners in ideal sex.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from female partner and from the word ideal sex through defining multiple beautiful sexy female partners within the word ideal sex – in separation of myself.



In nature with sunny weather

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being in nature with sunny weather to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define being in nature with sunny weather within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from nature, sunny weather and ideal sex through defining being in nature with sunny weather within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Without condom

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect condom to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define condom in polarity to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from condom and from ideal sex through defining condom in polarity to ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Various sex positions

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect various sex positions to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define various sex positions within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from various sex positions and from ideal sex through defining various sex positions within ideal sex.



Sexual sublimation

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect sexual sublimation to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define sexual sublimation within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from sexual sublimation and from ideal sex through defining sexual sublimation within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



All partners are satisfied



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect all partners being satisfied to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define all partners being satisfied within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from partners and from ideal sex through defining all partners being satisfied within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Duration: till I can no longer do it

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the maximum long duration of sex to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the maximum long duration of sex within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from maximum long duration of sex and ideal sex through defining maximum long duration of sex within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Explosive orgasms



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect explosive orgasms to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define explosive orgasms within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from explosive orgasms and from ideal sex through defining explosive orgasms within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Experience Intimacy like melting together



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the experience of intimacy like melting together to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define the experience of intimacy like melting together to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself intimacy and from ideal sex through defining the experience of intimacy like melting together within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Free from concerns



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect free from concerns to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define free from concerns within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from concerns and from ideal sex through defining free from concerns within ideal sex – in separation of myself.



Bright place



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect bright place to ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define bright place within ideal sex.



I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from bright place and from ideal sex through defining bright place within ideal sex – in separation of myself.







Re-define ‘ideal sex’:

- Sounding of the words:

The word ideal sounds like the word idea.

In Veno’s structural resonance document, it is explained that the word sex as per consciousness systems defined sound resonance, exists as follows:

S = I am sending/transferring

E = myself (that is of consciousness systems) energetically/systematically

X = into you, where we both together will crucify ourselves and each other with the integration of each other as consciousness systems.



- Dictionary Definition:

Ideal: satisfying one's idea of what is perfect

Sex: activities that lead to and include sexual intercourse



- New Definition:

From ITD course lesson 7 – the History of Mankind part 6, sex is the key to self-expression.



I would redefine ideal sex as an expression of who I am as life where I am constant – without energy fluctuation, discovering and exploring myself through self-direction and self-movement within, as and through the physical activity of sex with another being.





2. THE RELATIONSHIP-PERSONALITY



Trait 1: open

Trait 2: interesting

Trait 3: talkative

Trait 4: impressive

Trait 5: attentive

Trait 6: intelligent

Trait 7 honest

Trait 8: committed

Trait 9: strong

Trait 10: sexy

Trait 11: secure

Trait 12: trustworthy



Self-Forgiveness Application



open

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 1:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being open instead of being actually open.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 1 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hold myself back from being open through fear of being judged or harmed if I dare to be open.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being judged or harmed to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive myself to be autistic.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself as being autistic.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hold onto the self-perception and self-definition of/as being autistic.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 1 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to bottle everything up within me.

I forgive myself for a ccepting and allowing myself to hide the secrets of who I am.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that who I am is a secret.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I am actually able to hide myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that if I hide myself within me then nobody else will know who I am as what I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I forgive myself for a ccepting and allowing myself to hide the self-dishonesties that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be fear to be judged/laughed at/ridiculed/harmed if I dare to share myself openly.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being judged/laughed at/ridiculed/harmed to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear the truth of me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect facing the truth of me to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the truth of me to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.





interesting

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 2:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being interesting.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 2 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe myself to be a pretty boring person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hold onto this self-perception/self-belief about myself as being a boring person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I do not have anything interesting to share.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself in opposition to being interesting.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the trait of being interesting. (It is not that I have to become interesting deliberately to take on another personality of/as defining myself as being an interesting person.)

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to prevent myself from sharing myself because I have believed that I am a boring person and that people would not be interested in hearing me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to suppress myself through the perception/idea/belief that I am a boring person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be a boring person because I do not have specific hobbies which everyone is supposed to have according to society standard.





Self-Forgiveness on Trait 2 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge myself for being ‘boring’ as I have perceived myself to be.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge boring as being bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word boring through judging the word boring as bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear to be judged by others for being perceived to be bored.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being judged by others for being perceived to be bored to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project self-judgment onto others.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear not being accepted by others.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect not being accepted by others to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project lack of self-acceptance onto others.





talkative

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 3:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being talkative.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 3 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive myself to be an uncommunicative person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to regard being talkative not my type of thing.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to prevent myself from being talkative through judging talking too much as being shallow.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive that not talking much make me appear to be profound.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to exist within the perception/idea/believe that I have communication dysfunction and that I am not able to communicate effectively.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from effective communication.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing effective communication as who I am.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to prevent myself from talking due to fear that my words will have consequences.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect the consequences that go with my words to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that by not speaking I am preventing consequences.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that the more I talk the more consequences I will bring to myself and to others and thus that I’d better shut up.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive it to be wrong to speak.

I forgive myself for acceping and allowing myself to judge speaking as wrong.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from speaking through judging speaking as wrong.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 3 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being talkative to hide the depression within me due to ineffective communication.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge depression as bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from depression through judging depression as bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear that others may see me being depressed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being seen depressed to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself ot fear my own fear.





impressive

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 4:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being impressive.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 4 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe myself to be a low-key person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself as a low-key person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to place value and worth within being a low-key person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that being a low-key person is a good trait.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge being a low-key person to be good.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word low-ley through judging being low-key to be good.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hold myself back from speaking and expressing through sticking to my self-definition as a low-key person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to have created myself as being unnoticed through deliberately making myself unnoticed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear to be noticed as then I will be exposed to criticism, judgment and danger.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being noticed to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being noticed to being exposed to criticism, judgment and danger.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 4 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to feel shitty about myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to feel valueless and worthless.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to impress others so that I can believe that I am worthy.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to impress others so that I can get accepted.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to place value in being impressive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from value and worth through defining value and worth within being impressive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that if I impressed someone who I perceive/believe to be superior then I become more valuable and worthy.





attentive

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 5:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being attentive.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 5 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive being attentive as just another personality of the mind which I require to disregard.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I am not supposed to accept being attentive as me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive to be self-dishonest to be attentive as that would mean to take on a personality of the mind.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing being attentive as who I am – not taking on another personality but live as who I am within consideration of myself and others as myself within the context of what is best for all.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from being attentive through perceiving/believing that being attentive can only be from the personality of the mind.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 5 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the fact that I have transformed myself into caring/taking into consideration of anyone or anything.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the fact that I have transformed myself into not considering others equal and one as myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the fact that I have not given attention to myself and others as myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide it so that I do not face myself and stop it and change.





intelligent

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 6:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being intelligent.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 6 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to see myself as being stupid.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge myself as being stupid.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that if I do not live being intelligent I must become stupid.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to exist in the polarity of stupid/intelligent.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to participate in the polarity game of stupid/intelligent.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to transform myself into stupidity in order to counteract the personality of being intelligent.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing mmyself to perceive/believe that I am able to stop the personality of being intelligent through going to the polar opposite of being stupid.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to realize that going into the polar opposite of a personality trait is essentially supporting the same construct – just a flip of the coin.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I must choose between intelligent and stupid.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be defined by the polarity pair intelligent/stupid.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 6 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being intelligent to hide the stupidity that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the self-judgment of judging myself as being stupid.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge stupid as bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from the word stupidity through judging it as bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project my own judgment onto others.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear others judge me being stupid.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect others judging me as being stupid to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.





honest

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 7:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being honest.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 7 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself according to and as self-deception.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hold onto the self-definition of being deceptive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to justify the self-definition of being deceptive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from being self-honest through holding onto and justifying self-deceptions.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 7 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being honest so that I can hide the deceptions that exist within me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear to face the self-deceptions that I have accepted and allowed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect facing self-deceptions to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being honest so that I can be seen as an honest person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself through other people’s eyes.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to seek acceptance from others through presenting myself as something that is acceptable according to my imagination of what they would like to see me to be.





committed

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 8:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being committed.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 8 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I am lacking self-commitment.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from self-commitment through holding onto this perception/idea/belief that I am not self-committed and that I cannot be self-committed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to have abdicated the self-commitment that I have already developed and have transformed myself into this perception/idea/belief that I cannot be self-committed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that if I abdicated a part of myself I can no longer accept it as myself again.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I have lost self-commitment.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I am able to lose self-commitment.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not realize that if I am able to lose self-commitment it simply is not real – if I am self-commitment it is here as who I am and cannot be lost.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to realize that self-commitment is here as who I am in every moment of every breath.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 8 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being committed in order to hide that I am not self-committed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge lack of self-commitment as bad.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear others see me as not being committed and judge me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect being seen as not committed to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.





Strong

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 9:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being strong.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 9 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe myself to be weak.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself as being weak.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from strength that is who I am.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe myself to be weak because I do not know how to handle certain situations effectively.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to stand up within and as me and direct and move myself effectively.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to exist in the polarity of strong/weak – presenting myself to be strong while actually existing as weakness instead of actually living the strength that is who I am in fact within and without.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 9 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being strong so that I can hide the inner weakness within me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge weakness as bad and negative.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to see weakness as shameful and thus wanting to hide it.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be ashamed of myself for being weak.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project my own judgment onto others and thus fearing others to judge my weakness.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect my weakness being seen by others to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.





sexy

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 10:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being sexy.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 10 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive myself to be sexually unattractive because I have never entered into a relationship.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe there is something wrong with me that I am not sexually attractive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I require to become sexy so that I can lure females into a relationship.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge myself for not being charming enough.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to desire to be liked by others through presenting myself as being charming and sexy because I do not like myself.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 10 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being sexy and charming so that I can hide the fact I have not accepted myself and being confident as myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from self-acceptance and self-confidence.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being sexy and charming so that I can be accepted by others and feel confident which is not self-confidence.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to realize that if I am self-confident I do not need to present myself to be something in order to be accepted by others.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the point that I have not stood as self-acceptance and self-confidence so that I do not face and deal with these points.





secure

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 11:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being secure.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 11 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive myself to be an insecure person.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to seek security outside of me separate ffrom me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I am able to find security outside of me separate from me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that everything is a potential danger to me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to seek security constantly.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to give myself security.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to use insecurity as a motivation to move.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that if I am secure I am not able to move/motivate myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to never be satisfied with myself – perceiving/believing whatever I do is just a fuck-up and thus seeking acceptance and security outside of me constantly and continuously.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 11 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the insecurity that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not want to face the insecurity within me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I am able to hide the insecurity within me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to escape from facing myself as insecurity through hiding from myself.





trustworthy

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 12:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being trustworthy.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 12 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to exist within and as the self-definition of/as untrustworthy.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I can no longer be trustworthy because I betrayed myself before.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to participate in the thought “you fucked up once - you do not get another chance and you don’t deserve it.”

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that self-betrayal has left a scar that cannot be healed and thus I cannot become trustworthy again.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I do not deserve to be trustworthy.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to be trustworthy.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be untrustworthy because I have made promises that I did not keep – thus I cannot trust my own words.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to make promises that I cannot keep and thus compromising self-trust.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from self-trust.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 12 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present being trustworthy so that I can hide the self-betrayal that I have accepted and allowed.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the evil that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become which are reflected within my thoughts, words and deeds.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge the evil that I have become and try to hide it through presenting myself to be trustworthy when I know I do not even trust myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the self-betrayal that exist within me so that I can continue to exist and justify the self-betrayal that I have become instead of investigating, stopping, standing up from within it and change/transform myself to honour myself and become trustworthy as life.





Self-Corrective Statements



Write self-corrective statements for each trait/characteristic of your Relationship-Personality:





Trait 1 (open)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that it is fear of judgment and being harmed and the perception, idea and belief that I am autistic that is holding me back from being open.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold myself back out of fear of judgment and being harmed.

I do not accept and allow myself to continue to exist as the perception/idea/belief about myself as being autistic to hold me back from living openness.

I accept and allow myself to live as openness as who I am - the practical meaning of which I still require to explore, investigate and discover.



I accept and realize that the reason I present myself as being open is to hide the secrets, self-dishonesties and the truth of who I am so that I do not face myself, stop, stand up and change myself.

I do not accept myself to hide secrets/self-dishonesties/the truth of who I am from myself.

I accept and allow myself to be intimate with and be open to myself so that I do not hide and escape from myself, instead I allow myself to see the truth of me, the self-dishonesties that I have accepted and allowed.

I accept and allow myself to face myself, stop, stand up and change/transform myself through being open to myself.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being open, I stop and breathe and simply share what is here in the moment and live as openness as who I am consistently no matter where I am with whom I am.





Trait 2(interesting)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that the reason I present myself as being interesting is that I have perceived/believed/defined myself to be a boring person and has suppressed myself very much and within that attempting to present myself as the opposite of who I am.

I do not accept and allow myself to continue to live the perception/idea/belief about myself as a boring person.

I do not accept and allow myself to suppress myself through holding onto the perception/idea/belief that I am a boring person.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold myself back from expressing myself through believing that people would not be interested in hearing me.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself as the opposite of who I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I do not accept and allow myself to go into the polar opposite of boring which is interesting to just take on another personality trait.

I do not accept and allow myself to play the polarity game flipping the coin.

I accept and allow myself to diffuse/remove the perception/idea/belief that I have created about myself so that I can live free from such limitations.



I accept and realize that I am presenting myself as being interesting to hide my self-definition as a boring person and that the reason I hide it is that I have judged it as being bad/negative and projected this judgement onto others and also an indication that I have not accepted myself.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself as an interesting to hide my perception that I am a boring person.

I do not accept and allow myself to judge myself for being a boring person.

I do not accept and allow myself to project my self-judgment onto others.

I accept and allow myself to live as self-acceptance – the practical meaning of which I still require to investigate, explore and discover.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being interesting, I stop and breathe and express myself here in the moment – without attempt to present myself as something – either being interesting or being boring. When I hold myself back from expressing myself through believing that I am a boring person and that people would not be interested in what I say, I stop and breathe and express and share myself here in the moment of what I have to say.





Trait 3(talkative)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that the reason I present myself as being talkative is to hide my self-definition as an uncommunicative person and the belief that I have communication dysfunctions which prevent me from being communicative and the resulting depressions.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold myself back from expressing and speaking through holding onto my self-definition as an uncommunicative person.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto the belief that I have communication dysfunctions and that I am not able to communicate effectively.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold myself back from speaking through fear that my words may bring about consequences that I cannot the belief that by not speaking I am able to prevent those consequences.

I accept and allow myself to stop the judgments that I have imposed on speaking words.

I do not accept and allow myself to take on the opposite personality of being talkative which is just a flip of the polarity coin supporting the same construct.

I do not accept and allow myself to suppress myself and get depressed through holding onto the perception/idea/belief that I am an uncommunicative person.

I accept and allow myself to diffuse and remove the polarity definitions of being uncommunicative and talkative so that I can live free from such limitations and express myself here in the moment as who I am.



Practical Script:

When I present myself as being talkative or going to suppressions and depressions through believing myself to be uncommunicative, I stop and breathe and simply express myself here in the moment in breath as who I am – not being defined or limited by being uncommunicative or being talkative.





Trait 4(impressive)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that the reason I present myself to be impressive is because I have lived the polar opposite self-definition as an unnoticed low-key person and that I hold onto this personality trait through fear that I may be exposed to criticism, judgment and danger if I am noticed. I accept and realize that I am hiding the valuelessness and worthlessness that I have accepted and allowed to be who I am and attempt to impress others in order to gain value and worth.



I accept and allow myself to remove the self-definition as being an unnoticed low-key person.

I accept and allow myself to stop and remove the fear that I may be exposed to criticism, judgment and danger if I am noticed.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto the self-definition that I am an unnoticed low-key person.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself as being impressive to hide the valuelessness and worthlessness that I experience within myself.

I do not accept and allow myself to attempt to gain value and worth through impressing others.

I do not accept and allow myself to place value and worth outside of me separate from me.

I accept and allow value and worth as who I am – the practical meaning of which I still require to investigate, explore and discover.

I do not accept and allow myself to play the polarity game of being impressive and being an unnoticed low-key person.

I accept and allow myself to remove both definitions of being impressive and being unnoticed low-key which support and feed each other so that I can live free from such limitations/definitions.



Practical Script:

When I present myself as being impressive or suppress myself and hold myself back through holding onto the perception/idea/belief about myself as an unnoticed low-key person, I stop and breathe and simply speak, express, direct and move myself here in the moment in breath as who I am – not being defined or limited by being unnoticed low-key or being impressive – not presenting myself as something but expressing myself naturally as who I am in the moment.





Trait 5(attentive)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that the reason I hold myself back from expressing attentive as who I am is that I have defined being attentive merely being a personality of the mind and that to be attentive is self-dishonest without realizing being attentive can be lived as who I am from the perspective of considering myself and others as myself within the context of what is best for all. I accept and realize that I present myself as being attentive in order to hide the fact that I have transformed myself into considering nobody or nothing and that I have not given attention to myself and others as myself.



I do not accept and allow myself to hold myself back from expressing attentive as who I am through regarding it merely a personality of the mind and if lived will be self-dishonest.

I accept and allow attentive as who I am from the perspective of considering myself and others as myself within the context of what is best for all.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself as being attentive in order to hide that I care/consider no one or nothing.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself as being attentive in order to hide that I have not give attention to myself and others as myself.

I accept and allow myself to consider myself and others as myself in the context of what is best for all.

I accept and allow myself to give attention to myself and others as myself.



Practical Script:

When a situation presents itself in my world, I breathe, stop being ego-centric and give attention and consider all the people within it in the context of what is best for all.





Trait 6(intelligent)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that the reason I present myself as being intelligent is that I have defined myself as being stupid and try to hide this self-definition through going into its polar opposite – intelligent.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto the self-definition of being stupid.

I do not accept and allow myself to justify stupidity.

I do not accept and allow myself to judge the stupidity that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I accept and allow myself to remove the self-definition of being stupid.

I do not accept and allow myself to hide my self-definition of being stupid through presenting myself as its polar opposite as being intelligent.

I do not accept and allow myself to play the polarity game of being stupid and intelligent which support and feed each other.

I accept and allow myself to diffuse and remove both definitions of being stupid and intelligent so that I can live free from such polarity constructs.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being intelligent, I stop and breathe and express myself here in the moment as who I am. I use such situations as opportunities to see and investigate where I am still holding onto the polar opposite self-definition of being stupid and remove such definitions through self-forgiveness.





Trait 7(honest)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that what is holding me back from being self-honest is the self-deceptive nature that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become and my justification of it. I accept and allow myself to realize that I present myself to be honest so that I can hide the self-deceptions that exist within me and be accepted by others.



I accept and allow myself to remove the self-deceptions that I have accepted and allowed myself to be and become.

I do not accept and allow myself to justify my self-deceptions.

I do not accept and allow myself to justify my self-deceptive nature that I have accepted and allowed.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself to be honest to hide the self-deceptions that exist within me.

I do not accept and allow myself to present myself as being honest so that I can be accepted by others.

I do not accept and allow myself to play the polarity game of honest/deceptive.

I accept and allow myself to live as self-honesty and self-acceptance as who I am – the practical meaning of which I still require to investigate, explore and discover.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being honest, I stop and breathe and express myself here in the moment as who I am within self-honesty. I use such situations as opportunities to see and investigate where I am still existing in self-deception and remove them through self-forgiveness.





Trait 8(committed)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that I present myself as being committed in order to hide my self-definition that I lack self-commitment and that I abdicated self-commitment before and I have lost it and I can no longer be it. I accept and realize that I hide it because I have judged it and I do not want others to see it.

I do not accept and allow myself to hide my self-definition that I lack self-commitment through presenting myself as being committed instead of actually being self-committed.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto the perception/idea/belief that I have lost self-commitment and that I can no longer be self-committed.

I accept and allow myself to live self-commitment as who I am – the practical meaning of which I still need to investigate, explore and discover.

I do not accept and allow myself to judge what I have become.

I accept and allow myself to see what I have become, where I require to give direction and correct myself.



Practical Script:

When I see where I am not committed, I give it attention and investigate the cause of it and see what I can practically do or direct and walk the practical correction.





Strong

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 9:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being strong.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 9 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe myself to be weak.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to define myself as being weak.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from strength that is who I am.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe myself to be weak because I do not know how to handle certain situations effectively.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to stand up within and as me and direct and move myself effectively.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to exist in the polarity of strong/weak – presenting myself to be strong while actually existing as weakness instead of actually living the strength that is who I am in fact within and without.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 9 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being strong so that I can hide the inner weakness within me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge weakness as bad and negative.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to see weakness as shameful and thus wanting to hide it.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be ashamed of myself for being weak.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project my own judgment onto others and thus fearing others to judge my weakness.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to connect my weakness being seen by others to fear and thus I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear my own fear.



Trait 9(Strong)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that I present myself as being strong in order to hide the weakness within me so that I do not get judged by others.

I do not accept and allow myself to hide inner weakness through presenting myself as being strong.

I accept and allow myself to accept and face the inner weakness that I have accepted and allowed .

I accept and allow strength as who I am in fact within and without.

I accept and allow myself to remove the perception/idea/belief about myself as being weak and its polar opposite presentation as being strong.

I do not accept and allow myself to play the polarity game of strong/weak which support and feed each other.

I accept and allow myself to remove the experience of helplessness and powerlessness in handling situations that I feel not knowing what to do and investigate what I can practically do to assist and support myself in such situations.

I do not accept and allow myself to judge my inner weakness.

I do not accept and allow myself to fear that others may judge my weakness.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being strong, I stop and breathe and express myself naturally here in the moment as who I am. I use such situations as opportunities to see and investigate where I am still holding onto the polar opposite self-definition of being weak and remove such definitions through self-forgiveness so that I can live strength as who I am in fact within and without.



sexy

Self-Forgiveness for presenting self as Trait 10:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being sexy.

Self-Forgiveness on Trait 10 – Answer to question A:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive myself to be sexually unattractive because I have never entered into a relationship.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe there is something wrong with me that I am not sexually attractive.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to perceive/believe that I require to become sexy so that I can lure females into a relationship.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge myself for not being charming enough.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to desire to be liked by others through presenting myself as being charming and sexy because I do not like myself.



Self-Forgiveness on Trait 10 – Answer to question B:

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being sexy and charming so that I can hide the fact I have not accepted myself and being confident as myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from self-acceptance and self-confidence.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to present myself as being sexy and charming so that I can be accepted by others and feel confident which is not self-confidence.

I forgive myself for not accepting and allowing myself to realize that if I am self-confident I do not need to present myself to be something in order to be accepted by others.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to hide the point that I have not stood as self-acceptance and self-confidence so that I do not face and deal with these points.





Trait 10(sexy)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that I present myself being sexy in order to hide the perception/idea/belief about myself as being unattractive/not charming enough/lack of self-confidence and self-acceptance.

I do not accept and allow myself to hide the perception/idea/belief about myself as being unattractive/not charming enough/lack of self-confidence and self-acceptance through presenting myself as being sexy.

I accept and allow myself to diffuse and remove such perceptions and ideas about myself as being unattractive/not charming enough.

I do not accept and allow myself to play the polarity game of being sexy/unattractive or not charming enough which support and feed each other.

I do not accept and allow myself to gain acceptance from others through presenting myself as being sexy.

I accept and allow myself to develop self-confidence and self-acceptance as who I am.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being sexy in the presence of females, I stop and breathe and express myself as I communicate with males equal and one here in the moment as who I am. I use such situations as opportunities to see and investigate where I am still holding onto the polar opposite self-definition of being uncharming/unattractive and see where I am not accepting myself and thus apply self-forgiveness and practical corrections.





Trait 11(secure)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that I present myself as being secure is to hide the insecurity that exist within me and that I have defined myself as an insecure person and this self-definition is holding me back from living security as who I am. I accept and realize that I use insecurity as a means to motivate and move myself which is also a reason I hold onto this self-definition.

I do not accept and allow myself ot hide the insecurity within me through presenting myself as being secure.

I do not accept and allow myself to suppress the insecurity within me.

I accept and allow myself to see and investigate the insecurity within me.

I accept and allow myself to see ‘problems’ as opportunities to assist and support myself and transform ‘problems’ into gifts.

I accept and allow myself to investigate how I am come to be such an insecure person – the cause, origin of it so that I can remove such causes and live free such a definition.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto my self-definition as an insecure person.

I do not accept myself to hold myself back from living security as who I am.

I do not accept and allow myself to seek security outside of me separate from me.

I do not accept and allow myself to justify this self-definition of being an insecure person through using insecurity as a means to motivate and move myself.

I accept and allow security as who I am and self-move and self-motivate myself – not being motivated by insecurity.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being secure to others, I stop and breathe and express myself here in the moment as who I am. I use such situations as opportunities to see and investigate where I am still holding onto the polar opposite self-definition of being insecure and apply self-forgiveness accordingly to remove such a definition and transform such a situation into a gift.





Trait 8(trustworthy)

Realisations to be lived:

I accept and realize that I what is holding me back from living trustworthy is my perception/idea/belief about myself as untrustworthy due to self-betrayal that I did to myself before and the belief I can no longer be trustworthy again and that I do not deserve to be trustworthy. I accept and realize that I am hiding the self-betrayal that I accepted and allowed through presenting myself as the opposite as trustworthy.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold myself back from living trustworthy as who I am.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto the self-definition that I am not trustworthy.

I do not accept and allow myself to hold onto the self-betrayal that I did to myself and use it as a justification to remain as untrustworthy.

I accept and allow myself to remove the idea that I do not deserve to be trustworthy.

I accept and allow myself to remove the belief that I can no longer be trustworthy again.

I accept and allow myself to be careful in making promises – do not make promises that I know I cannot keep which fucks up my self-trust.

I do not accept and allow myself to hide the self-betrayal that I accepted and allowed.

I do not accept and allow myself to continue to exist as and justify the self-betrayal that I have become instead of investigating, stopping, standing up from within it and change/transform myself to honour myself and become trustworthy as life.

I accept and allow myself to see and investigate what I have done to myself and what I can do practically to correct myself.

I accept and allow myself to live self-trust within self-honesty as who I am here in every moment of breath.



Practical Script:

When I attempt to present myself as being trustworthy to others, I stop and breathe. I use such a situation as an opportunity to see and investigate where I am not trusting myself. Within that stop, stand up from within it and change/transform myself to honour myself and become trustworthy as life.



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